6 Things That Only A Truly Spiritual Person Can Comfort A Mourner With

Sophie Benett
6 min readDec 9, 2021

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Death is always painful, the greatest loss in our life. Giving comfort to a mourner is one of the most difficult tasks you can imagine. After all, it ‘s sweet to say that I have condolences. While we know the feeling of loss, the pain that doesn’t want to go away, and empathy here or there, we can’t give anyone perfect comfort. But we can help by easing the heart of the mourner! A wise soul, a truly spiritual man can give these 6 handcuffs one mourning hands!

Or, if you are the one who is mourning and a spiritually minded person, perhaps the following slogans will help you…

1. He/She Is Already In A Better Place to Live Another Life.

Are you serious now? Would that be great spiritual wisdom, one of the most patterned sentences? Well, wait… it sounds completely different from the mouth of an ordinary and a spiritual person. After all, the spiritual man believes. Believe in Heaven, the Island of Eternal Summer or Seol, it doesn’t matter. In fact, maybe the mourner himself believes in one of them! But you don’t even have to name it. So when that sentence comes out of the mouth of a spiral, believe it to sound different. He knows he’s really there.

In that wonderful, perfect place where there is no disease, no pain, no poverty, no suffering, no negativity. There is only love, peace, happiness and serenity in that place of paradise. And the rest we loved. Why shouldn’t we believe that one lives there longer? That the deceased has everything there? You can continue to watch football games, eat as much cake, drink as much wine as you want, or be crowded with cats. Why not believe that all your dreams have come true and are as happy as possible?

2. Only His Body Is Dead — His soul is now beginning its journey

Even so, it sounds awful because death is in it. That there is no more. That body will no longer embrace, smile at us, that eye will look into our eyes, that lips will kiss. But a spiritual person knows that the person, the individual, is not just made up of the body and that his soul is more important than anything that was released at his death. Yes, only the body died. The dust jacket is over. But never to the soul. The soul is then liberated and begins its new journey. He is very much alive. It may make us feel like he’s just gone and we’ll see him again one day. When we go after it, we too… since death is only a state. Not the end. The end of the body is yes, but not of the soul. Therefore, in fact, death is the beginning. Although for a while we won’t see our departed loved one going to the aforementioned fabulous place or starting a new life — even if someone believes in reincarnation. But if we believe, we can believe that we will even meet in life! Or think that wherever you are born you will surely bring happiness and joy because you are a wonderful soul. These must remind the mourner spiritually!

3. The Soul Is Not Alone

We have the charm of saying goodbye to at least waiting for the next meeting. And starting from the former, the soul just traveled forward somewhere where we would meet him again later. There, in that majestic place. But until then, we have no reason to worry about it. There will be loved ones with him who will “entertain” him. Now you can spend more time with the deceased’s parents, wife, friends, anyone. Until then, they will take care of it and take care of it. If you can believe in this form of life after death, it will definitely make you feel good.

And if you believe in angels, don’t forget them either! They will take care of him too and they will love you until you get there.

4. They’re Always Here With Us

This may sound commonplace, too. Although not for ghosts at all and not for spirits. A spiritual person knows full well that it is right for a departed soul not to stay here but to move on. He can let go because that’s what it takes for both of them to find peace. Of course, in many cases, the ghosts do not cross immediately, they stay here to take care of us, they help and when they see us slowly calm down and arrive, they cross. No doubt they are still here with us!

We can feel, see, hear him, dream with him. But when the time comes, it is fitting to let go of the hand of the spirit, for it belongs elsewhere. But we don’t lose him yet, for we have locked in the little piece of the soul of the one we loved forever and live in us. And his living relatives. And in our memories.

5. You Will See Them Again In The Next life

Most spiritual people believe in reincarnation, and it is really not so bad to believe that we will meet again in our next life. Either in Heaven or here on Earth. After all, descending souls are constantly searching for and finding each other as they remember each other. Maybe that’s how you met now! And in the next life, you will find yourself in love again, with a father-daughter or child and mother relationship. There will be so much difference that you may be in a different relationship, but they are sure to be even wiser, as you have already spent a life together and separately!

6. They Want You To Live & Be Happy

Every pure, converted soul wants the living to be happy. She wants to see her happy when she’s upstairs or finds out where she is from, but she looks down on her. Let’s smash, cry, be depressed if we have to, but then we have to move on. Because that’s what He wants. You can be sure that it wants you to realize your desires — and even your old, shared desires — to travel, live, laugh, love. He doesn’t want you to sour yourself from grief alone. Even if it’s unthinkable to go to a party or remarry or have another child, she does. And… if he wants you to be happy, don’t you think it would be appropriate for him to do his request, his will? It doesn’t matter when you get back on your feet, but once you’re ready for it, be it and don’t be ashamed to start a new life!

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Sophie Benett
Sophie Benett

Written by Sophie Benett

Writer —if I tell,you’d not believe so I’d rather to describe by my own way—Mom for 3 writes about •HistoricalFiction•Spirituality• LifeGoals•Love•Fashion•TrueC

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